Sunday, December 7, 2008

I should of stayed in bed this morning...

First today we had plans to go out to breakfast. The last few Sunday's we have gone out for breakfast and it's been kind of nice for us, I'm enjoying it. Anyway, Jonathan was grumpy, tired, fried, whatever from basketball and all his games. So the morning ended up becoming a yelling match (and I hate that) so I just sent him back to his room for the day and he can just talk to the walls and sleep it off. I had to remind him that when he acts like a 2 year old we don't have to leave we can just stay home. And that we did. I made us breakfast after the dust settled some. So we got through that, he apologised and we talked.

Later in the afternoon we went and visited Derrel's sweet mommy. While at grammy's house today I saw a nephew I hadn't seen in sometime. He had nice words for me today. NOT

He told me- "wow, your looking CRACK skinny". What the f*c*. I think he could of just kept his mouth shut and said nothing at all. I don't get it either as he is not a light weight himself and struggles with weight too. It really hurt my feelings, but I'm one of the most soft hearted souls you'll ever meet. So I know I may be hurt for no reason because I am so soft hearted. But why do people have to bring you down rather than just say something nice. I understand people are not used to seeing me anything but FAT but jeez. What is wrong with people???????? GRR

So this evening I just keep hearing that in my head over and over and it's made me sad.

I'M GOING BACK TO BED!

good night!
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1 comment:

Anonymous said...

I think you ought to send him a thank you note and let him know that in the future when he sees someone like you how has lost a lot of weight to be more gracious to them. Give him examples of correct ways to give a compliment and not to use adjectives that cause someone to faint..LOL
He really was probably trying to give a compliment but doesn't know how to do it properly... He may even blow his chances with a nice young lady someday by being so gruff (if he isn't involved already or maybe if he is it will set him straighter)
....try to be positive when you write so he doesn't get offended either...:)
rose

January 22, 2009 at 4:58 AM

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