Yesterday a death of a Angel and the death of the king of pop. Now they have peace resting with the real angel's. ☮♥
But I really came on here to blog about my son Jon. He had a really bad day yesterday. I hate this part!!!!!!!! His girl friend broke up with him late last night. :( My heart is breaking for him. We didn't talk to much about it last night. He just came to my room to give me a good night hug and I just held him for awhile and he cried. It was so hard, I just let him cry but Wow...this part of parenting sucks! Watching them hurt and cry is so hard. When he left my room I just cried for him. It will be fine but I hate watching him hurt.
As for me I'm feeling a bit better. Finally yesterday I took one Alka-Seltzer Effervescent Tablet to try to get some relief from this shit in my chest and head. Since I never take meds it worked very well for about 5 hours. Yesterday I kind of felt like living again. I really have been quite sick this week. This morning after sleeping some of the congestion from my head and chest moved to my right ear, i seriously can not hear out my right ear. (OH no-please not another dr. bill)! As soon as I eat I am going to try a hot shower and if I have too take another effervescent. I'm trying to suffer through this cold and not take meds. But to be honest it's tough not being able to take meds when your in pain or need relief of some kind. Were working all weekend so I have to get my act together. Doing the garden and landscape show today and all day Saturday. I'm working on Saturday and on Sunday. To be honest I'm a bit worried cause I'm so weak and congested but I'm sure I'll manage. Takes me till 4pm to kind of feel alive and then it's bed time and I start all over again congested as hell.
OK I'm done nagging!
$Wish us luck with the show$
6 comments:
You poor thing! I got teary eyed reading your post. I dread going through that. We had an incident with Jacob yesterday. He got "conned" into buying magnets for $30. Well these magnets were like the size of stick pins. What made it worse, was he took the money out of the piggy bank then lied to me about what he was doing. I worry that he's such an easy target with stuff like that. Question for you, when did you have the "sex" talk with Jonathan? How old was he?
Poor Jon, it is so tough first love. My youngest son also broke up with his gf this week, I unfortuantely have seen it coming for a while. Give J a big hug and there will be new girls on his horizon!! I hope you feel better too, there is alot of sick people here and they can't seem to knock it out of their system.
Amber- Yup we had the several talks and just talked even further about sex about 5 months ago. Derrel even went as far as to show Jon where the health dept is and show him you can get protection here without embarrassment and health issues if and when you need too. We made the choice not to ignore but to teach him. Not condone but show him the facts. Do you know he didn’t even understand how AIDS is different from STD’s and it kills? 9th grade and he didn’t get it, until we asked. Cannot count on health class to teach them. Jon is 15 ½ and says he’s not ready, but…
Oh man Michelle, sorry to hear that. They were going out for a while. Did he see it coming on for a while or just you? How did he take it or was it his idea?
Thanks guys!
He seems ok but his MySpace profile says’ different. :(
ITs tough to be a parent. But he is lucky to have a mom like you. When my first girl dump me for some showoff, i was so heart broke and all my mom said was it was stupid to cry as there are too many fish in the seas.
A.K. Thanks for the kind words. I would never put any of his feelings aside. And thanks again for the nice words. Have a good one! :)
Hope you are feeling better now. As for Jon- yes this part of parenting really does suck. Just keep giving him all the love you have in your heart and he will be ok.
Lisa
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